The Closet Threshold

Male Sexuality Issues

Confused about your sexuality?


Straight, bi-sexual, gay or just confused? It can be very frustrating if you don't know.

Hi there, I'm Rob and in 1998 I started a website where I posted my story, asking for other men to contribute their story, to help other guys dealing with similar sexuality issues. Over 25,000 people visited the site and many men contributed their stories, some of which took amazing courage, writing about something that has deeply affected their lives.

I want to share their stories with you. Maybe you could share your story with others too..?

The Closet "Threshold" is the area of discovery and experimentation for men who are not sure about their true sexual orientation. For some guys, like with me, there were external circumstances that made it more difficult to naturally discover this for ourselves. I'm hoping by reading the stories on this site, it may help you to better deal with your own sexuality issues.


If you have the courage to send me your own story to help others, I would be honoured to post it for you. Click on the "Your Story" tab above.. Thanks! I will let you know when it has been published :))

Read our newest story now (A great contribution!) The Stories

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WARNING: The content in some of the stories and discussion forums may not be suitable for those under the age of 18. These are real stories and issues from people who wanted to share their own personal experiences, to try and help others with similar issues. This site does not provide any advice. You should always seek professional advice from an expert if you are unable to deal with your own issues.

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